Tuesday, 08 September 2009
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Funeral
My mother always says that "death is a part of life"; Do you think that this is true?
Do you think that death is the end or the beginning of something else?
How is it even possible to live when you've lost your husband you've been married to for 47 years?
yes i've just came back from a funeral. not someone from my family. The husband of a friend.
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Comments (6)
I think that death is the beginning of something else. I do believe that the life we're living on Earth right now is just temporary, kind of middle-ground type of thing, and that when we die, the real stuff is to come.
Of course, that doesn't mean death is any easier to deal with. We're only human, so it's frightening, and when it comes to the death of loved ones, it's painful.
I don't think death is an end. It's the end of a biological body, but not of the spirit, of the personal. It's like our body is a piece of clothes : we are in, and colthes are grwoing old.
I don"t believe ine paradize or hell (how can a "hell" be worse than living on earth for most creatures dealing with humans ??), but I am sure there is something after. Nature is always recylcing all that composed her, so why wouldn't she do the same concerning aims ?
nevertheless, loossing someone still be something so hard. If my boyfriend dies now, I think I'll eat many pills, alcool or meet the train harshly. Even f it's only his body, the feelings and pain of "alive bodies" is too hard to deal with.
I think death is the end of your physical body and the beginning of some kind of afterlife, though I haven't yet come to terms with what I think that afterlife is. I have a difficult time believing in the Christian concepts of Heaven and Hell. I almost feel like I have to believe in some kind of afterlife, because it's so depressing to think of death just being the end, you're done, no more, that's it and your body just rotting away in a hole six feet under (or in ashes, if you're cremated). Moving on after a death is the hardest part. Some people don't ever completely move on (like me) and some people just come to terms with it and are done. It's different for everyone.
My sincerest condolences on your loss.
@SerenaDante@xanga - Thank you. i've watched the video... Bad idea. it makes me cry too. 47 years. i'm only 26 I can't even imagine what it means! i've seen all their children saying how much they loved they papi.
I would probably die if something happens to my boyfriend.
@NymphaeHecati@xanga - thank you